I had the best results with KSPlayer, again I had to deal with the developer, but it was definitely the best result.
If you examine the discussion here, I have reduced it down to an average delay of 3-4 seconds
https://github.com/kingslay/KSPlayer/issues/733#issuecomment-1949653439
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Can you give me some guidance on this?
xcrun simctl diagnose
I generated a simulator error report by making a simulator error report, how can I share it?