I just got my wife some Airpod pros. I couldn't get them to hook up so I thought Id try to hook them to my phone which is the exact same phone as hers iphone 11. They hooked up right away and sounded great. After hours of trying to figure out what the difference was between our phones I find it! ( or so I think I did), Hers is IOS 14.3 and mine is IOS 14.2, its the only thing that could be wrong. Apple should either fix this or figure out something asap