Same issue for me, but on macOS Big Sur 11.6.
Any chance you downloaded the xip file with Chrome? If so, try downloading with Safari. Saw this suggested in another thread so I tried it out and it solved the issue for me, xip extracts and Xcode 13 installed.
Washingmysocks
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