Same issue here so what I did was and I hope this will also work for you:
Uninstall the Watch app then reinstall it again
Turn ON the Low Power Mode
Settings>Cellular>Turn OFF Wi-Fi Assist
Restart the iPhone
Try pairing it
EDIT: Also make sure your phone is running the latest ios
ThomZ
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