I'm not sure whenever you started having these problems, but I've been having them too. iPhone 12, and if I listen to connect anything but Airpods Pro with my phone they disconnect every 5 minutes. Just bought some $400 Sony XM4, and can't even use them. Where is the money that we spend on these products there's no excuse for issues getting worse instead of better. Every update it's getting worse. I just switched from Samsung and I'm regretting it. This has never, and I mean never happened to me before. I was just hoping I would find and an answer, except waiting for an update that makes it worse. Apple better fix this shit or I know what ill be doing, going back "To it just works", maybe if Steve if was around Apple and my Bluetooth connection would do that.