I had this issue as well. Icon jumping, but then not opening. Still received notifications of messages but app would not open. I tried deleting plist files, starting in safe mode, opening the calendar first, and eventually reinstalled Big Sur. Nothing worked. I called apple support and they recommended holding the option key while clicking on the icon to open. It worked.
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