So basically the problem starts in system preferences -> security & privacy. There is no allow button at all.
I received letter from Apple that app is successfully notarised.
Digging into the problem I've found that problem is with kext.
So after sudo kextutil /pathtokext
I see such errors in terminal:
Filesystem error: Invalid ownership (503:20) should be (0:0) on /private/var/db/KernelExtensionManagement/Staging/com.name.filesystems.P88h7Z/name.kext/Contents
Filesystem error: Invalid ownership (503:20) should be (0:0) on /private/var/db/KernelExtensionManagement/Staging/com.name.filesystems.P88h7Z/name.kext/Contents/_CodeSignature
Filesystem error: Invalid ownership (503:20) should be (0:0) on /private/var/db/KernelExtensionManagement/Staging/com.name.filesystems.P88h7Z/name.kext/Contents/_CodeSignature/CodeResources
Filesystem error: Invalid ownership (503:20) should be (0:0) on /private/var/db/KernelExtensionManagement/Staging/com.name.filesystems.P88h7Z/name.kext/Contents/MacOS
Filesystem error: Invalid ownership (503:20) should be (0:0) on /private/var/db/KernelExtensionManagement/Staging/com.name.filesystems.P88h7Z/name.kext/Contents/MacOS/name
Filesystem error: Invalid ownership (503:20) should be (0:0) on /private/var/db/KernelExtensionManagement/Staging/com.name.filesystems.P88h7Z/name.kext/Contents/Info.plist" UserInfo={NSLocalizedDescription=Validating extension failed: Kext name v2080.20 in executable kext bundle bundle name at name.filesystems.P88h7Z/name.kext: