The exact same errors for me as well *SIGH*, absolutely NO simulator will work, I've tried both iPhone and iPad simulators, no dice anywhere.
From what I've been reading this seems to be an UPGRADE issue. I was on High Sierra running XCode 9.x and all was perfect. Then I upgraded to 10.... KABOOM :-( ... everything went to crap. I've tried upgrading to Mojave, just in case there was some sort of incompatibility in a framework component somewhere, that didn't work, and I've tried uninstalling XCode, ( yeah, I know, that leaves orphaned files hanging around, so I wasn't really holding my breath on that one ), rebooting, and reinstalling 10 from the AppStore.... again, no dice :-(
Thing is, my friend did a CLEAN install of XCode 10 on Mojave, and his simulators all work flawlessly. Gggggrrrrrr.... so that's why I'm thinking this has to do with the upgrade path. The only thing keeping me from being completely ticked off is that I am able to test things out on my physical iPhone... at least they didn't break that.
It seems as if Apple may have gone the way of a lot of other software companies and axed their Testers, I mean, who needs Quality Control anyway, right? That's what all us consumers are for... we test their released product so they don't have to pay employees to do it :-(.
**Apple folks**.... can one of you PLEASE chime in here ... at least tell us you're reading these, as well as all the Error Reports that you have to be getting from the crash reports. Is there an Update with a fix coming anytime soon?