I've got the same prompt and found a file /Library/Developer/CommandLineTools/.beta with the content of 1.
A colleague of mine doesn't have that file and he's not prompted to update to the beta, so ich renamed the file to .beta-backup and reloaded the system updates.
Success: the update to Xcode 14.1 beta 3 is gone :)!
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