I had a same probrem on iPhone 14 Plus simulator with iOS16.
Command below did not work,
xcrun simctl status_bar "iPhone 14 Plus" override --time "9:41"
But next command worked.
xcrun simctl status_bar XXXXXXXX-XXXX-XXXX-XXXX-XXXXXXXXXXXX override --time "9:41"
Xs indicate your simulator identifier, which you can refer on your simulators list on XCode.