Same here! Come on Apple!
This is killing me as I can't test at all as the feature I need requires me to run on the hardware!
Here's my setup and iOS devices that are not connecting:
Xcode 15.0.1
macOS 13.6.2 running on M1 Max MacBook Pro.
iPhone 14 Pro with iOS 17.1.1
iPhone 12 Pro with 17.0.1
iPad Pro 12.9 with iPadOS 17.1.1.
I've tried to connect the iPhones and iPad directly (wired) with no luck. I even reset each of them by turning off and back on Developer mode. They also don't show up wirelessly.
Yet each of the devices connect with no problem to the MacBook Pro itself and are visible to the finder.
Ugh!!! 🤬