How to control child device from my device

Hello,


I am a developer and i want to control my child's device remotely from my device, so i can turn the wifi, camera and social apps off when i decide, without having to do it directly in the Settings/Restrictions options on his phone. I found that i have to use MDM server with Apple Device Enrollment Program (DEP) and install a profile on his device. As DEP is not available in my country, is it possible to create MDM server myself ? I suppose, that the controlling application on the my device has to send changes to the MDM server, which then sends them to his device. Is that possible and is it the correct way to do it without breaking Apple's Security Policies?


Best regards,

Radi