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Hi,It seems usr/include is obsoleted. I am trying to build a project which has many frameworks that point to usr/inlcude. They fail on build complaining they cant find usr/include. They are right, it is not there..I think the wrong apporach is to copy those files from somewhere back over to usr/include. the project needs to know where Catalina has mysteriously put those files. Any ideas how I can simply and easily point the project, and all the cocoapods it depends upon (around 24) to use the new directory? I dont think I can touch the cocoapods settings, and probably shouldnt. I can however, change the settings in my Xcode project? Or set a file somewhere om the Mac itself?Thanks..