Had the same issues like you with Xcode 14.2 and OSX: Ventura (MacBook Pro m1pro ).
All Problems are gone with just downgrading to Monterey.
No more Black Screens
Simulator doesn't stuck at launch
Simulator feels snappier at launch
Muharremoglu
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